help your reactive dog

Walks can be pretty stressful
when you have a reactive dog right?

If you have a dog that explodes into a frenzy of barking, spinning and lunging when they see other dogs, people, bikes, traffic, strange animals etc, it can become a never ending cycle of stress and upset for both you and your dog, which can put a lot of strain on your relationship and the enjoyment of your day to day life together.

Do any of the following apply to you?

  • You dread going for walks with your dog
  • You spend your entire walk constantly scanning the environment for triggers that might set your dog off
  • You feel embarrassed and upset by your dogs behaviour
  • You feel out of control when your dog reacts badly to something

If any of these sound familiar, I know firsthand, it really isn’t the enjoyable, carefree picture of  living with hooman’s best friend you had hoped for, but read on to see if any of the information here could help you.  I have written this article based on Reactivity to other dogs, but the same principles can be applied no matter what your dogs particular trigger is.

Training and behaviour modification for this kind of challenge takes time, it really isn’t something that will change in the space of a week or two, so your number one goal, to begin with, is to aim to keep your dog under threshold at all times.  What I mean by that is prevent them from being put in a position where they react.

Remember, although this may seem like you’re avoiding the problem, this is in fact a major part of the training process, to reduce the frequency and intensity of reactive outbursts, whilst you’re working toward helping your dog feel more comfortable with these experiences.

The more times they end up in this position, two things are happening. The first is, your dog will feel like you aren’t dealing with these situations, so they must take care of business themselves (hence reaction).

And the 2nd thing is the more times they react, they are repeatedly practising & strengthening the behaviour of reactivity.  When the dog (or trigger) that was too close for comfort moves on by, your dog will see this as a win! They don’t know the dog was going to go by anyway, they think their offensive barking & lunging MADE that dog go away.  So you can see why it only takes a few repetitions before this becomes their habitual ‘go to’ behaviour, meaning it will quickly become an ingrained habit. (I talk quite a bit about these kinds of powerful habits in my 5 Essential Training Components Course which you can subscribe to here on the website)

It may help if you can think of this proactive avoidance approach as being a bit like driving a car, you need to know what route you’re going to take before you set off, you always have to be checking around you, ready to manoeuvre & respond if something unexpected happens, like in your driving test when you have to say out loud everything you see, so your instructor knows you are aware of everything happening ahead of & around you. (Do they still do that? Or am I showing my age!)

So by proactive avoidance I don’t mean anxious scanning, I just mean you always want to be present & aware on your walks, so you are always in the driving seat and ready to respond calmly to any triggers that may present themselves.  This may mean…

  • Planning your walks so you avoid narrow paths
  • Being prepared to do a u-turn and go back the way you came, until you can find a place to gain some distance as you pass – sometimes it can only be those few extra feet that’s needed, but it could be more depending on your particular dog’s threshold
  • Crossing the street – another reason to plan your walk carefully, if you’re walking down a busy road and there’s a dog coming toward you on your side of the street, will you be able to cross the street easily?
  • Nipping into someone’s driveway to gain that extra few feet you need
  • Always walking around the outside of bends, like with offensive driving, so you have the maximum view as you turn the corner.
  • Always having an exit strategy in your mind for wherever you are walking


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“Reactive Dogs Need Proactive Handling”

So these things need to happen before your dog starts reacting, don’t wait to see if they’re going to react or not.  It’s much better to proactively create some distance as soon as you see a trigger, then if your dog remains calm, you will be able to use that situation to do a little bit of positive association training as the dog passes you by.

If you leave your response until your dog is already reacting (over threshold) food and treats are unlikely to work anymore, (emotional reactivity shuts down digestion as part of the fight or flight defense mechanism) and you’re going to have to battle against them to move away from the situation. They are effectively in the midst of an emotional explosion, they can’t help it or control it until they are taught how to in a very controlled & progressive way.  So once your dog is in that ‘zone’ no learning or training can take place, all you can do is manage as best you can and get out of the situation as quickly and calmly as possible.

Things to remember:

  • Avoid shouting and getting upset yourself
  • Avoid any form of physical punishment or aversive training method, this will most likely make your dogs reaction worse, and increase the risk of you getting a redirected bite. It could also damage your relationship with your dog, which could reduce your chances of eliminating the problem,  as a large part of rehabilitating a reactive dog lies in trust within the human-canine partnership.
  • Obviously if your dog is lunging, hold tight, but try to release the tension in the lead at any opportunity you can, I know this is easier said than done, and it’s something that will be explained more at my workshops in Sheffield and in my new book.
  • Try to keep yourself between your dog and the trigger, I know this is often not easy because their reactivity is usually pretty intense, hence why I recommend avoiding it at all costs, until you have done the training they need to be able to cope in these situations.
  • Speak calmly ‘it’s ok, I’ve got you, we’re ok’

Once you are able to give some time and training to your dog’s reactivity, they will gradually be able to cope with these close encounter situations, but until then…. ^^THIS^^ is my advice, but read on for some more information and a FREE Resource that could help you….

Now I know how stressful, upsetting and downright exhausting it can be when you have a reactive dog, whatever their trigger may be.  I’ve had them myself in the past, and I’ve worked with a fair few too. I know how much it can get you down, put a strain on your family and feel like all the wonderful reasons and dreams you had of sharing your life with your dog,  seem to have disappeared out of the window!

So I have a special offer just for you guys only…
I would like to offer you 6 consultations with me, for the price of 5

This is Just for those of you struggling with reactive dogs… because I know how much support you need, I know this kind of work takes time, it’s not a quick fix problem, I know how frustrating it can be to feel like you’re not making progress, and I know how isolating it can feel, and how important it is, to be able to just ask a question when you need to!  Reactivity on walks is usually not a standalone issue, and can be affected and compounded by any number of everyday stressors and situations, and that is another area I can help with.

6x 60minute Telephone/Skype consultations
(For the price of 5) = £210  £175

Including email support, training guides, ask me what you want, when you need to for the duration of our sessions together.  You can take the sessions every week, every month, whenever you feel the need, it’s entirely up to you.
I will only be able to take on a limited number of clients because of the time commitment involved,
so it will be first come first served.


In the meantime, If you would like a copy of my
FREE Resource, ‘Walking Your Reactive Dog – CHECKLIST
to give you a taste of the kind of things I work on with my clients,
then you can get your copy here

If you know anyone that struggles with the challenges of having a reactive dog,
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If you live in the Sheffield area, you might like to join my Sheffield Positive Dog Training Meetup Group.  Click the Link below to find out more.
(NB: These are Workshops not Training Classes)

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